Marriage Registration in Germany #

In Germany, registering your marriage can be a complicated process, especially if both partners are foreigners. Here’s a straightforward guide to help you navigate the process smoothly.

Getting Married Abroad? It Might Be Easier: #

If both partners are non-German (especially non-EU), getting married outside Germany and then registering it here can be simpler. Here are two ways to do it:

1. Get Married in a Country with an International License: #

• Countries like Denmark and Malta offer international marriage licenses that Germany recognizes.
• These licenses often include a German translation, reducing paperwork.

2. Get Married in a Country that Issues an Apostille: #

• If you marry elsewhere, your marriage certificate may need an Apostille.
• This is an official stamp that confirms your certificate is valid.
• You can usually get it from the city hall where you married.

Tip: If one partner wants to take the other’s last name, do it during the marriage process. German authorities do not allow name changes later.

Marriage Registration Process in Germany: #

The process may vary slightly depending on the city and office you visit, but these are the general steps:

If Both Partners Are Foreigners: #

• Book an appointment at the Bürgeramt (registration office) in your city.
• Some officials might try to send you to the Standesamt (marriage office), but that’s usually for marriages involving German citizens.
• The appointment title might vary. Look for:
  • “Eheschließung Anmeldung” (Marriage Registration) or
  • “Familienstand ändern” (Change of Marital Status).
• Calling instead of using online booking can be helpful.

If One Partner Is a German Citizen: #

• You might need to visit the Standesamt (marriage office) instead.
• Check online for available appointment slots.
• Some people have registered at the Bürgeramt instead, so check with your local office.

Documents You Need: #

Prepare these documents before your appointment:

• International marriage certificate (+ Apostille if required).
• Translated birth certificates (or an internationally recognized version).
• Meldebescheinigung (registration certificate from Germany).
• Passports.

Note: If you married in Denmark, you might only need your passports and marriage certificate.

Fees & Final Steps: #

• After submitting your documents, you may need to pay a small fee.
• Some Bürgeramt offices only accept EC cards, so carry one just in case.
• Sometimes, additional documents are required, so check with your local office.

What Happens After Registration? #

• You will receive a confirmation letter recognizing your marriage in Germany.
• A new tax ID will be issued for you and your spouse.
• You can apply to change your tax class to save money (we explain how in our tax guide!).